The 3 am wake ups

It was over a week ago that we finally stopped using the paci, or as Mollie calls it "ba". She has done very well with it overall. She does still ask for it in the car, but instead I say "ba's are for babies and you are big girl." Then we turn up the kid songs and I make sure it is a song she knows. She forgets all about the "ba".

Ever since last Saturday she has been waking up between 3 and 4 in the morning. That makes for a very tired Mommy and Daddy. It is like having a newborn again!We are not opposed to the cry it out method. In fact, that is the method we have used since she was a tiny, little baby. So, we will let her cry for about 15 minutes and then go in and check on her. Every morning, she is wailing until someone comes in there. (Even if it is well after 15 minutes.) We go in, bring her downstairs, try to rock her back to sleep, and she refuses. Sometimes she asks for milk, usually asks for Toby, and then wants to watch Barney. She is well aware that her shows are on at that time of the morning. UGH!

David and I alternate our nights up so that one of us can get sleep and the other is up. However, since I wake up at 4:30, we are all up very early! As much as I hate getting up that early, I do enjoy my time with my girl. I have really missed her since I have been back from Christmas break. (Not that I don't miss her other times. It just seems like more and more now.)

I think that she used to use her paci to self-sooth and we have taken that away from her. She doesn't have anything to use now, and that is a problem for all of us. I also think the move has been hard on her. She isn't used to staying in the room she is overnight. I think when we consider all of these things I can't help but feel bad for her. I do give in and give her the milk, tell her Toby is still in bed sleeping, and that Barney will be on in a minute. Then we cuddle on the recliner and enjoy each other's company.  She is still and will always be my baby!

Tubes Recap

Since October, Mollie has had consistent ear infections. The pediatrician would give us medication to take for 10 days. The week after the medicine was finished, we were always back in the doctor's office for another infection. This was so frustrating as a momma. I couldn't imagine putting my daughter on all of these antibiotics to have them just not work. We now have certain antibiotics that she can't take anymore, because her body is immune to them. All at 18 months old!! We went to the doctor this past week for a check up, and this was the first time we have not had an ear infection at the doctor's office. In December, we were sent to an ENT. We went to see Dr. Thomsen with Pediatric ENT of Atlanta. He was FABULOUS!! I loved his professionalism and knowledge. He said he wasn't there for the kids to like him. He was there to get an accurate check of her ears. I completely agreed with this statement.

When we walked in the office and were in the waiting room. My mom, Harriet, and Mollie were sitting at a table reading books. I was filling out all of the paperwork.

Then we were called back. She immediately cried when anyone walked in the room. (She now does this anytime we are at an appointment.) We had to have an extra nurse come in and help me hold her while the doctor checked her. It turned out that she had another ear infection. Not surprising, since we had finished medicine for the last ear infection 3 days before that. We were then taken into a room for her to do some audiological testing. It was really cool to see how they do this with children Mollie's age. The first couple things were they put something in her ear to make sure she could hear. Then they put us in a sound booth. In one corner was a duck (Mollie's favorite) and then a cat. The animals would make noise and Mollie had to find the animal making the sound. It was really cool! I had to hold her on my lap and make sure I didn't make any movement. I was really proud of her! After all that testing, they knew that she could hear. (I didn't ever think that was a concerned.) We will retest her, because one of the tests came back kind of low, but they think that is because she had an infection at the time.

We then were sent to the scheduler to schedule the surgery. As ready as I am, it is never fun to sign a consent form that says the things that "could happen". YIKES! I don't even want to think about it! The surgery is scheduled for this Wednesday at the CHOA outpatient facility. We are asking for prayers, but know that the surgery is what she needs!

We will update later this week with how she does.

Thank you for the prayers!

Christina

January's Family Day

At the beginning of the year, David and I talked about doing a family day each month. As we have talked, it has been difficult to figure out what we want to do this month. It is so cold outside! We are not cold people, so usually we tend to stay inside on months like January. Well... as things have gone through my mind, I couldn't find anything that I was really excited about. Today I finally figured out what we are doing! If Mollie is feeling well enough from her tubes surgery on Wednesday, we are going to the Imagine It! Children's Museum. As I was looking at the website, it looked like a lot of fun. The reviews seems to be balanced and lots of people said their young children had fun. I am WAY excited about this adventure!!

I can't wait to take lots of pictures and tell everyone about it!

Here is the website to anyone that might be interested! If you want to join us, we would love to have you come with. Just let me know.

http://www.childrensmuseumatlanta.org/

Mollie's "Ba"

I feel like every time I look at Mollie lately, she has grown. My little baby is quickly becoming my big girl. She is so independent, asks for help, and wants to help with everything. David and I have been talking about getting rid of the pacifier. Everyone is ok with this big change.... EXCEPT ME!!!!

The pacifier is the only thing I have left of her being a baby. I know there are lots of reasons why the paci needs to disappear -- she is becoming dependent on it, her teeth are coming in, and she REALLY doesn't need it. All of these are reasons that I understand and would totally tell another parent. I just can't stand it! I am just so sad.

Last night I went to dinner with a friend. David laid Mollie down for bed without a pacifier. I was proud that she went to sleep when I heard the story. She woke up at 3am looking for her "ba". I just couldn't do it! I had to go give her to it. I guess we can see that I WON'T be the disciplinarian around the Evanina house.

We are trying again tonight. We will see how she does without the paci. I hope that she will make it through the night and this "ba" won't be needed in our house again. I just want her to stop using it, without me having to take it away from her. :(

She has been crying for 15 minutes... I know I can't give in, but I hate having my baby cry.

Off to watch Duck Dynasty and try to forget that "ba"....

Resolutions!

As a new year begins I look back on the last year. 2012 was filled with many good things.... weddings of friends, births of babies, another year at my fantastic job, a marriage that continues to get stronger, and my baby growing into a little girl.

As I decide what my resolutions for this year are, I think about things I put in place every year that last for the first 6 months and then fall away as I get busy or just plain forget. So this year, since one of my resolutions is restarting this blog, I am going to write them here. I will be held accountable through the blog and will have something to reference in June when I have forgotten what I said I would do.

1. Blog: As the years go on, I would love a picture journal to have of Mollie growing up, life lessons learned, and fun things that we have done as a family.

2. Make a family day once a month: With David's schedule being so opposite of mine, we rarely have days that we are both home and able to something as a family. We have decided that once a month we will do something as a small family. This day will be scheduled at the beginning of the month. We will put it on the calendar and will make sure to clear our schedules.

3. Mommy and Me journal: My favorite website is Pinterest! I love to see all the fun things to do. So this year, I will start a journal to Mollie. I saw this idea on Pinterest and decided I had to do it. I will share with her the things going on in her life, my feelings, and let her know about the fun times we have as she gets older. It is my intention (remember I have great intentions but forget to continue them) to continue this as she gets older and allow her to write me back. On Pinterest, the mom would write in it and put it on her daughters bed. When the daughter got time, she would write the mom back and place it back on the mom's bed. I LOVE this idea... now to just remember to do it! I think I will since I am so excited about it. I am headed out tomorrow to buy the journal for the year.

4. Date night: Lastly, David and I will have 2 date nights a month. One that he chooses and one that is chosen by me. I think this will be a lot of fun! This is what we got each other for Christmas. Since that time was so crazy because of moving, we decided this would be perfect since we don't have a lot (I mean any) alone time. I have a friend who did this with her husband and had a great time planning each date. We are sure the grandparents would love to help us by watching Mollie.

I know this is a lot of resolutions, but they all boil down to 1 thing. Spending time with my family and sharing about it. I am so excited to make a true effort to spend time together and take pictures of the fun times together.

I can't wait to keep you posted on the fun things we have planned! I can't leave without sharing some cute pictures of my sweet girl...