When we went to the doctor for Mollie's 18 month checkup the doctor and I discussed Mollie's language. Mollie had lots of words, but no one was able to understand what she said except me. She would say something and everyone around me would look at me to translate. Most of her words started with d's and b's (even when they weren't supposed to) and she just started saying Momma 2 months before (which is very late for the average child). She was also not repeating words like she should at this age or saying words that I believed she should at least be attempting. When she would say a word it would have the right amount of syllables, it just wouldn't have any of the right letters in it. However, she understood EVERYTHING we said to her. She understood almost too much.
I know every child is different, but I was kind of freaking out. I think a lot of it boils down to being a special education teacher and not wanting to teach my own child. I also think that I know what to look for, and I am oversensitive when something takes more time than it should. So, as I was talking to the doctor, she seemed a little concerned as well. Since we were getting tubes the week after our appointment, she said she wanted us to come back in 3 months if we had a lot of the same concerns.
After her tubes I waited and waited for something to happen. Nothing was changing... She had more words, but they were just more words for me to translate or try to figure out. We did a lot of show me (where she would take us to the object) or just agree with what she was saying. Mollie was starting to get frustrated and I was just getting more and more sensitive to her language and people understanding her. We went to the ENT for her post op appointment and she had an ear infection and her tube wasn't even working in one of her ears because it was clogged. I was completely overwhelmed and frustrated. We are paying all of this money, and things aren't even getting better. They fixed the tube through an office procedure and asked to see us back in 3 weeks.
Well the in past 2 weeks EVERYTHING has changed! Mollie has gained a ton of words, and slowly they are becoming so much more understandable! She repeats everything we say and wants to have a conversation with us. She is able to tell us what she wants, will ask for help, and say please. (These are all things she wasn't doing 2 weeks ago.) She is speaking in some 2 word sentences. She says "Thank you, Daddy" and "No, Mommy". We love the Thank you daddy much more than the no, mommy, but we will take it all!
I truly believe that since her ear infections started in September she has heard everything underwater. Everything was muffled and that is why she would speak with the right amount of syllables, but couldn't find the right letters. Every time she says a new word, I praise and I praise and I praise. A little too much I think... but I am so proud that we can all understand and I have to translate a lot less. I am so excited that my little girl is finally being understood and getting what she wants because she knows the right words and sounds.
I was so worried that we would be in speech before the age of 2. It looks like we are progressing perfectly now and she is very close to her developmental age with her speech. This makes me one proud momma!